Note: Only around 200 of the over 1,000 respondents answered this question.
Question 12. If you fantasize, describe briefly your favorite fantasy.
1 My wife making love with another man
2 Real sex with a woman
3 That he was more passionate… words, actions
4 Sometimes it’s about my spouse, sometimes about past images I’ve seen or girls that I’ve recently seen.
5 my girlfriend walks in with a dress on.i get on my knees and pleasure her and taste every part of her until she can’t take standing up.
6 It has to do with being at the beach…sunset…wine
7 My husband is impotent so we can’t have sex but I love him anyway.
8 sometimes I fantasize about being with another woman, I think that a woman’s body is more beautiful. (I don’t think I can write this)
9 Teacher/student Doctor/patient
10 Same partner, 17 years ago.
11 I think about my “wild” years before 18 years of mutual monogamy.
12 Being somewhere not in our home. different places
13 on the deck of a sailboat
14 Mainly it’s sexual images I’ve had in my head from different movies I’ve seen. A combination of regular movies and porn.
15 another woman, other then my wife
16 About past sexual experiences with my wife.
17 Another woman involved
18 My partner performing oral sex on me
19 Unfortunately, I sometimes imagine I’m with someone else….
20 Back to the first time I saw and laid naked with my wife.
21 it’s normally some sort of bondage situation, or some sort of situation -at the beach, outside, etc
22 typically the fantasy involves someone other than my spouse, sometimes to the point of distraction
23 She on the bed on her back. Me standing on the floor with her legs thrown over my shoulders.
24 It is usually very quick, a glimpse of what I would like. Sometimes it is another person, always a quick glimpse of them, but I always go back to my partner.
25 Stranger
26 Being a stripper & having sex with the customers
27 Usually the girl online who flirts with me more than my wife does.
28 different encounters with my wife
29 Oral sex, other partners.
30 n/a
31 well… i’m a girl so it mainly just involves cuddling. lol
32 Past lovers who did create a better experience, favorite actor, actually having a husband.
33 another person
34 n/a
35 outside, beach
36 Watching my wife have sex with another man’s huge cock.
37 That we are somewhere else – a beach, or somewhere exotic like that.
38 younger more attractive partner
39 N/A
40 It’s with my husband still, but we’re either in a differen location or something.
41 really anonymous???
simply put…strangers meeting somewhere and going to have sex
42 That someone else or my spouse with a better body shape is making love to me or touching me in a specific way.
43 I’m glad this is anonomous. I fantasize about spanking.
44 It is always about my husband, He is a wonderful lover and we have a deep spiritual and physical connection. I am so focused on him, it amazes me.
45 Um, no thanks.
46 Doing things that are not normally “inbounds” with my spouse
47 Husband walking about without much on.
48 Imagine my wife restrained and/or blindfolded. Sometimes someone else.
49 other younger girls… doing things we would not do…
50 Previous places
51 3 way
52 other women
53 I fantasize not during it
54 Just anything involving random encounters in places that I don’t commonly have sex.
55 Someone else.
56 Sex
57 Being somewhere else or different positions.
58 That my wife is letting me screw her in the ass, which she never has.
59 with my partner, somewhere more romantic
60 Being with someone else
61 Actually, I love looking at my wife. Is that fantasy?
62 try to imagine things being new…exciting. sometimes think of other women.
63 Something related to my husband, or something related to imaginary characters unrelated to myself or husband.
64 Just my wife doing different stuff.
65 sometimes…depends where my mind has been throughout the week.
sometimes on what i want my partner to do, sometimes about images i have looked at earlier.
66 Threesome with another woman
67 Different positions
68 hard sex
69 just picturing different images
70 I fantasize about sex
71 for sex to be more adventorous
72 riding a guy whole he plays with my breasts
73 just about being younger and in shape with my husband…the good ol’ days
74 3somes
75 unfortunately other people
76 I’ve never had sex and don’t have a boyfriend, so this is NA.
77 other person
78 Multiples or someone else
79 sex with other people
80 Ex girlfriends or celebs maybe
81 no
82 We’re on the beach.
83 menage a trois
84 Being nude on a beach and making love to my husband.
85 Anal
86 I have to keep focused…
87 Making Love on the shores of Lake Tahoe by candlelight & the moon.
88 My husband and I making love in a beautiful, remote beach or some other gorgeous outside setting.
89 another woman
90 kissing, naked
91 Having an additional woman
92 wouldn’t you like to know?!
93 the first time i undressed her and saw her naked fantastic!
94 Imagine being in exotic location
95 being with somebody else
96 being swept away
97 multiple people
98 Nope. Haha.
99 how to make it even more fulfilling for each of us
100 We are on a secluded beach
101 -
102 No current partner
103 that he loves me …
104 Her wearing sexier outfits, lingerie, heels. Occasionally, someone else, instead of her.
105 Beach
106 other men
107 I fantasize that my wife is actually enjoying sex.
108 mainly about other people
109 usually involves a cruise ship balcony
110 none
111 Varies
112 varies, based on whatever comes to mind
113 Buying my wife some race lingerie at a store and she models it for me.
114 Making love to a friend
115 That we’re still dating and I’m doing something I’m not supposed to (sex before marriage).
116 making love in a department store dressing room
117 Double oral sex
118 I sometimes fantasize of being with other people
119 i fantasize that i could actually get some sex…
120 Different places…
121 Usually that we’re on a boat.
122 We fantasize together about times we were dating and sexual activity was off limits.
123 nope
124 him saying, “lets have another baby.”
125 Traveling
126 sometimes about some one else. Sometimes erotic vision I have seen somewhere in the past
127 my wife having sex with another man
128 I am a Christian practicing abstinence until marriage. I wish there was an option for that.
129 Usually imagining us together someplace more romantic/exotic than we really are.
130 Wine helps. I fantasize I’m 40 pounds thinner with no more stretch marks….I’m wearing a ridiculously sexy bikini, on a beach with my husband, no one for miles, the breeze caressing us, going for it over and over and over and over and over again…
131 That I am overpowering my wife.
132 having sex in a regency style garden, in alcoves and secluded grottos
133 group sex or just hanging out naked with other people
134 That we have perfect bodies ; )
135 Thresome
136 Wife dressed as a clown
137 something that looks like pornography
138 In the shower
139 only occasionally, that my partner is someone else
140 Anything that involves my wife “pursuing” me.
141 N/A
142 having more sex
143 oral
144 Receiving or giving oral sex to/from my husband on our stairs.
145 Us on the beach
146 Probably 2 women at same time
147 Another guy or more
148 former girlfriend
149 Imagining we were alone, on an island…on a beach or behind a waterfall in a cave.
150 Roleplaying…
151 Usually fantasize about sex with another person
152 I have but not regularly
153 Remembering the risk-taking while engaged to be married.
154 wearing woman clothing
155 Changes
156 Younger days. First time sex. Old girlfriends
157 Tying her to the bed
158 someone else
159 bdsm
160 Honestly, even though it’s anonymous – I really don’t want to invite you that far into my bedroom.
161 My husband’s and my first time together.
162 well I don’t because I’m single. Divorced actually but redeemed by the goodness and grace of Christ. Looking forward to meeting the man-of-God God has for me. P.S my answers are as they are now and when I become married. Hope that makes sense.
163 Rarely it’s another woman. Usually it’s my wife being totally abandoned to me sexually and looking to please me 100%
164 My wife’s sister joining in 
165 having sex with my husband and another man
166 A partner that enjoys sex
167 I don’t have a favorite fantasy.
168 other women. either just me and her or my wife and her
169 It’s usually about setting and/or about what my partner is actually saying.
170 other women
171 Lesbians
172 That she actually enjoys it.
173 N/A
174 I usually fantasize about someone other than my partner, someone who is more sexually attractive to me, more outspoken in the bedroom, one who challenges/excites me
175 Forceful, where he has his way with me.
176 Don’t have one…
177 hmmmm
178 Having a secret sex partner that never is discovered or found out. Being able to enjoy and explore that person without guilt or being labeled as an adulterer.
179 Something risky… slightly public, but where no one can see… the risk of someone catching you is exciting.
180 na
181 Lovers in the midst of foreplay with underclothes still on.
182 Outdoor sex
183 Group sex or anonymous sex
184 group sex
185 Umm, no thanks
186 stuff about my husband
187 About having sex with someone else! Well, since it has been 15 years since I have had sex with my husband…I have forgotten what my fantasies are! Sad!
188 outside, in garden of eden, uninhibited pleasuring my partner and him recipricating
189 being spanked
190 goes more to BDSM
191 Watching… anything sexual, especially without anyone knowing.
192 watching
193 that I am with my lover and he is touching me in a very loving way, slowly, all over; he is kissing me teasingly, then deeply, and showing me the passion and pleasure he feels. that he wants me and loves to be with me. (this replaces past fantasies about being in high-risk places having sex)
this is a long-distance relationship right now.
194 kidding right?
195 reliving past sexual encounters
196 Fantasize by myself since there is no sex
197 From our bedroom to different locations in my mind.
198 Long foreplay with her in a romantic far away setting.
199 Just pretend we’re some place else like outside or on a boat.
200 slender women
201 Outdoor sex
202 exhibition, touching and being touched by other different than coupple, watching
203 deep intimacy between lovers, which guides the sexual path.
204 Fantasize about another person
205 light bondage
206 Doing things other that just the typical 1-2-3 done routine. Have to watch my thought life because the fantasy can become her with someone else.
207 Just about everything..mentionable and unmentionable.
208 im usually thinking about what id like to try next
209 About my wife being aggrasive with me
210 I imagine my partner and I when we were younger and just getting to know each other. This restores the newness that familiarity can bring.
211 *
212 Sometimes think about my first lover.
213 HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN MY HUSBAND. RE 15 BELOW-I DO MASTURBATE BUT 1-2/MONTH SO I PUT NEVER AS THAT WAS NOT AN OPTION YOU GAVE.
214 only on occassion…it’s that we are making a movie
215 Varies
216 Multiple partners at once
217 having sex
218 don’t have one
219 Totally depends on what my partner’s saying… don’t really have a consistent favorite.
220 touch in all the right places
221 great friend
222 Health problems are gone and we get to have sex is tied with dominance type stuff.
223 never tell then it not a real fantasy, I believe it lessens the effect to share it
224 bondage, sex in public places
225 n/a
226 typically with someone other than my lover
227 something maybe that I’ve seen in a movie.
228 mostly of my wife
229 girl on girl
230 Usually with some fantastic element like vampires or werewolves. Always rougher than I’d ever want it.
Like a vampire half-forcing himself on me.
231 I am a celebate widow so some of the questions don’t apply but I will answer them as though I were still married. When my husband was alive, yes, I fantasized. It usually had something to do with foreplay rather than actual sex.
232 No sex, I’m abstinent. I fantasize at times about what it will be like like moments before. Like what I’ll wear, what he’ll say, what I’ll say or if we’ll say anything at all. I usually stop once I get to fantasizing about sex itself. It’s hard to fantasize about something you’ve never done lol.
233 Different partner, different location
234 no
235 Multiple women
236 na
237 Being the primary object of my husband’s desire, being able to ‘communicate’ with him totally on a physical level and have him “ravish” me because of his unsatible love and desire for me.
238 having sex with my wife… sad huh?
239 I Fantasize about sex with my with but not necessarily duriing sex. My fantasy some times is to be on a secluded lake or beach and skinny dip together and enjoy being naked together in nature the way the first man and women were.
240 Domination/Submission
241 Sometimes about a lost soulmates love!
242 my wife being more aggresive
243 Lesbian
244 new positions, a real orgasm, him fondling and stroking me and being fascinated w/me
245 My wife actually liking and enjoying frequent sex with me
246 Fantasize about sex with another man.
247 my husband and i are making love in his office, after everyone has gone home for the day.
248 just about my husband and me, quite honestly. past experiences and such.
249 thinking of a former spouse